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Design a life you freakin’ love and become the woman who LIVES it

You’ve always been the personal growth type. A seeker, an expander-- someone who wants to access her greatness.

And up until now, you’ve overcome so many barriers to that. Taken risks, leaps of faith. Accomplished big goals and milestones.

But...

There is this lingering “ideal version” of you swirling around in your brain.

The image of who you’ve always wanted to be and the life you’ve always wanted to have.

You can feel it.
You can see it.

This version of you...

  • spends her time intentionally.

  • has boundaries because she respects herself more than anyone.

  • naturally feeds herself with beautiful, nutritious food she loves, no big deal.

  • doesn’t wish she was in anyone else’s body but her own and who treats her body with respect, every day.

  • is relaxed and comfortable in her own skin, on her own and in a room full of people.

  • is excited to wake up and do the work she does in the world.

  • loves easily and knows she is loved right back, even with her imperfections.

You know it’s within your reach.
You know it’s what you’re meant for.

The thing is —

The life you want, the way you want to be, the woman you want to be is over there…

And you’re over here.

With a bunch of murky blocks standing in your way.

You see other women as examples of who you want to become in your life or on social media, and you make attempts to step into that, too.

You tried the good ol’ morning routine, but a few days in, you’re back to scrolling on Instagram the second you wake up. And then you get angry at yourself for doing the same old sh*t… Again.

You’ve worked on your relationship with food, but things still aren’t totally clicking. You still don’t feel your best, and you’re either overthinking all of your food decisions, or you find yourself ending work at 6pm, having nothing planned, and frantically putting together a less-than-inspiring meal. You want better for yourself.

You actively try to be kinder to yourself, but you end up still beating yourself up for not being productive enough, smart enough, cool enough, pretty enough, interesting enough, or just plain ENOUGH.

You want to get to the next level in your business, but have a hard time believing in yourself and trusting yourself enough to show up powerfully. You see other people doing it better, and you’re easily defeated!

Jamie Mendell, Life Alchemist, sitting on an ottoman chair writing
Jamie Mendell, Life Alchemist, sitting on a rock in a field

If we haven’t met...hi! I’m Jamie Mendell, Life Alchemist and former self-sabotager.

Trust me, I know what it looks and feels like to constantly get in my own way.

I wanted to experience the confidence I saw other people embody, but internally, I was criticizing myself all day long.

I wanted to feel alive and sexy in my body, but behind closed doors, I was treating her like crap and totally disconnected from her.

I wanted to show up in dating and relationships boldly as myself, but deep down I was doubting if being me was even good enough.

I wanted to follow my instincts with my business, but I questioned my intuition and worried about what others would think.

Instead of letting all of the above keep me stuck and small, I chose to see these things standing in my way as lessons for my evolution.

I learned...

  • how to become my biggest advocate, instead of my biggest critic.

  • how to love and respect my imperfect body and treat her exceptionally well.

  • how to be myself and trust that it was absolutely perfect.

  • how to lean into the pulls of my intuition and use it as my strongest guiding force.

It took a whole lotta support and guidance for me to become the woman I am today-- to break down my insecurities, my blocks, my old stories-- and design the life I have now.

It all gets so much easier (and you can evolve so much FASTER) when you have support.

A mentor.

Someone who’s going to guide you toward your own intuitive answers.

Someone who can see the ways you’re getting in your way that you can’t quite see for yourself… and lovingly call you out on it.

Someone who can envision you at your highest potential and light up the path for you to get there.

One-On-One
And that’s what I’m here to do for you in my signature

Private Coaching Program.

I’ve privately coached hundreds of women as they’ve evolved in all sorts of aspects of their lives: from finding ease and joy in their relationship with food, to finding confidence and self-assurance when dating and in their relationships, to creating a life and business that lights them the heck up.

Photo of Jamie Mendell, Life Alchemist, leaning on a kitchen counter

If you think this might be for you,
let’s dive into how the Private Coaching experience works.

  • We work together for 5 months, and have coaching sessions every other week.

  • Our coaching sessions are 45 minutes each, either on Zoom or the phone.

  • In between sessions, you get unlimited access to me via Voxer, a super fun walkie-talkie app where we get to leave each other voice messages (so efficient!) and you can lean on me for any support you need.

  • Rather than a set “curriculum”, the experience is completely tailored to you. During the first session I help you get crystal clear on where you want to go and what next-level version of you you’re trying to step into. Then, as we move through the weeks, I use my laser-focused, “get to the root”, intuitive superpowers to identify and help you shift all the STUFF that’s getting in your way.

  • Clients always tell me they love that I’m a very practical, “action-oriented” coach. You’ll leave each of our coaching sessions with 2-3 “action steps” for you to practice for next time. These are intuitive to me, and specific to you (think: journaling prompts, mini challenges, self-care practices, experiments to help you grow, etc.)!

  • Plus, as a Private Client you get complimentary access to all my other courses + any books I feel are relevant to our work that I send you along the way.

Pretty great, right?

It is a special experience, if I can say so myself!

Although each program is customized and all about YOU, here are the types of transformation you can expect during our time together. You will:

Build Confidence

Stop finding yourself in the same old self- critical, self-defeating patterns keeping you feeling stuck and not good enough. Instead, step into self-leadership and lead yourself toward your greatest potential, every damn day.

Nourish Your Body

Feel even better in your physical body so you can go after what you want with gusto: more consistent energy, better sleep, and a clear mind. Know how to feed yourself in a way that fits perfectly into your lifestyle, fuels that beautiful body of yours, and is exciting and delicious.

Find Inner Trust & Flow

Stop living from a place of “shoulds” and instead from the magical essence of your intuition and your soul.

Create a Life You Love

Design a life that lights you up. Learn how to plan your week and your days to set you up for intentional, productive, balanced days. Clear out habits that you know aren’t serving you and adopt new ones that elevate you to that next level.

Lean Into JOY

Learn how to put an end to constant stress about everything and relax into more joy and pleasure, even in “hard” situations.

Become More YOU

Discover what's actually true to you in all areas of your life. Rather than being molded by external expectations and what everyone else thinks, learn to rest into who you really are. Find the beauty in being authentically you.

CLIENT REFLECTIONS:

"Working with Jamie was the most valuable experience of my life, and I consider it an irreplaceable gift to myself. She is a beautiful person with the kindest soul, and every time we spoke, I felt her love and compassion for me. She treats every client like a close friend, and you really do feel it."

- MELINA SOROKA

"Jamie has truly changed my life. There’s not a day that goes by when I don’t think about her and the impact she’s had on me. Everyone keeps asking me what I'm doing, and I immediately tell them to go check out Jamie!"

- GIA JEAS

"Nothing has helped me the way working one-on-one with Jamie has. My body is feeling healthier and lighter than ever, but I have to say that the emotional and mental results I’ve seen are the biggest takeaway."

- CHERYL BAGTAZ

"I wondered if I would be able to gain new insights from private coaching because I have been a psychotherapist for 14 years. But my concerns were unfounded as working with Jamie has been worth every penny."

- ALESIA WILSON

"I can’t even begin to describe how amazing it is to work with Jamie. She leaves no stone unturned! I never realized how many parts of my life have factored into my long time struggle with food, my weight and my confidence. Jamie and I literally talked about everything and she became way more to me than 'coach'."

- LIZZIE MONGAN

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"The biggest shift for me was learning self-compassion, and to let go of the thousands of things I felt I 'should' be."

I feel like an entirely different person after working with Jamie. I learned to listen to and trust my intuition, have deep compassion for myself, show up authentically in my relationships, and pursue career choices that make me truly happy. On top of that, I've also mended my relationship with food, but working with Jamie unlocked so many foundational things that the food and body image stuff became secondary.

I can't even choose a single area of my life that Jamie’s process impacted the most, because her work is so foundational that it trickles through every part of my life. While working with Jamie, I've changed careers to a role that has felt much more in line with my natural skillset, moved across the country to a new city and nurtured deep authentic friendships on both coasts, and am in a great romantic relationship where I'm much more able to advocate for my needs. Jamie has been a huge source of guidance and support through a number of major decisions in my life.

Working with Jamie is life changing! To be honest, I've been skeptical of the concept of life coaching, but Jamie resonated with me from our very first consultation - she gets it; she is a balance of intuition and credibility. Her programs and advice are actionable (important for a type A person like me).

Overall, I have never felt more at peace with myself than I do today (and my loved ones have observed this shift as well)!

- JANICE WOO

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"Jamie is one-of-a-kind and it’s hard to explain the experience of working with her in words."

Working with Jamie allowed me to develop a deeper level of self-trust than I ever thought was possible. Being an entrepreneur can feel overwhelming and isolating but my work with Jamie helped all of that to melt away. She allowed me to feel seen, heard, understood, and truly supported beyond my business -- as a human.

Instead of constantly comparing my business, my voice, and my choices to others, Jamie helped me to quiet the noise and connect within. She has this magical way of combining wisdom with curiosity.

Over the years of working with Jamie, she’s guided me to evolve and align my business as I’ve grown. Jamie is one-of-a-kind and it’s hard to explain the experience of working with her in words. After all, how do you adequately describe when someone comes into your life and changes it for the better? I'm forever grateful for Jamie's presence in my life.

- SIMI BOTIC

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"Working with Jamie is simply divine. She offers perspective and clarity that has helped me completely shift how I see myself and my life everyday."

Before I started working with Jamie I was struggling with body image, emotional eating, and a hateful inner critic. I was in a job that I hated, I could barely look at my own reflection in the mirror, I hated my body and suffered from constant low energy.

I found Jamie, and I'm so grateful that I did! Once we began our work together my life began to alchemize. The self-hatred began to subside, I welcomed more pleasure in my life (beautiful foods, new experiences, deeper connection with my partner), and I magnetized a new job.

Jamie's expertise helped me shift my mindset around food, life, my body, work, and my most intimate relationships. Working with Jamie is simply divine. She is grounding, supporting, and offers perspective and tactical clarity that has helped me completely shift how I see myself and my life everyday.

Today I can confidently say that I'm living my life with more authenticity, integrity, and compassion due to my work with Jamie. I've healed my relationship with food and now view my body as a beautiful vehicle for my spirit. I trust life and I deeply trust myself and my resilience. I show up with gratitude and a deeper understanding of my own power due to my work with Jamie. I would HIGHLY recommend working with Jamie if you are ready to take your relationship with yourself to the NEXT LEVEL! If you feel capable of designing your life there is no better co-captain than Jamie!

- NINA SASSON

This is for you if…..

  • You know the way you think about yourself and speak to yourself is bringing you down; your insecurities are holding you back from who you know you can be

  • You watch yourself continue to do things you know aren’t the best thing for you, but you can’t seem to stop

  • The word “should” frequents your vocabulary and you’re guided by what you “should” do often; listening to your intuition feels like a hazy concept

  • You can envision a happier, more confident version of yourself and are tired of continuing to get in your own way

  • You want real, loving, consistent support to keep you moving forward toward what you want and be there to help you tackle the bumps along the way

  • You know there’s more for you but you can’t quite seem to get there on your own, or you want to get there faster

Want to explore working together?

Let’s see if we’re meant to be!
Here are the steps forward:

1.

Fill out THIS application and let me know you’re interested + why.

APPLY HERE
2.

Within 48 hours, I'll confirm if working together feels aligned, and send you a link to schedule a complimentary chat.

3.

We’ll go over all the deets on our call, you decide if you want to say “YES!” and then we begin!

4.

You receive a welcome packet with everything you need to get started and we kick this incredible journey off.

I can’t wait to receive your application + explore working together!

XX

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If you’re listening to all the dating podcasts t If you’re listening to all the dating podcasts to figure out how to BE in a relationship //

The books
The dating podcasts
The Youtube videos

There is so much out there now about how a woman should attract a man

— You seduce him by sitting back and letting him come to you
— Don’t be too available or forward
— Be in your feminine goddess essence (lol)

Oh man, have I been there! I was laughing with a client last week about this, and how I legit bought a book called ‘How to Make Every Man Want You’ when I was dating. And trust me, I’ve spent my fair share of hours reading dating blogs where men tell you what kind of woman to be to ‘get the man’.

OY.

If you’re in this space, I want to tell you what I told my client:

Want to attract the right partner?

Just 👏🏻be 👏🏻yourself.

Text him if you want to text him.
Initiate plans if you want to see him.
Bring up the “what are we?” conversation if your heart really wants clarity.

Seriously. Throw out the rules + the noise.

I legitimately wouldn’t be married to Ryan right now if I listened to the dating advice I read about not being “too forward” or “too this” or “too that”.

And the phrase “be yourself”? I know, it can feel so confusing. But who am I?

You are different in every moment!

Some days you might intuitively feel the urge to sit back and let him initiate.

Some days you might feel the urge to reach out and make plans and be more forward.

AND IT’S ALL OKAY. You are a fluid woman, and nothing is wrong with any of these parts of you.

I made quantum leaps in my dating life when I started to trust MY WAY. And it led to real, authentic love.

So I want to leave you with this question to ask yourself:

✨👉🏻“If I trusted that I knew what I was doing in dating, what would I do?”

And try acting from THAT place.

Bonus? This is how you grow confidence. By sending yourself a message of, “honey, I am learning to trust that YOUR way is enough.”

And the more you approve of YOUR way, the more you bloom from the inside-out, and the more magnetic you become.✨
I’ve been needing more rest in the past week. S I’ve been needing more rest in the past week.

So I’ve rested more.

Period.

I initially wrote a long post about this, but then I realized it doesn’t need to be explained or justified.

It just is.

When you need rest,

You can take it.

You may not be able to find it right in that moment, but you can notice the desire + move toward it.

I’ve needed it. I can feel it in every part of me.

So I find ways to do it.

At some point I will have more outward energy, and that will be wonderful, too.

But right now, I am in a season of ‘more rest, please. More quiet’.

✨And I’m finding ways to give that to myself. And it’s a beautiful part of being a woman. Of being a human. Of being alive.

I love this inward part of me, just as much as the magnetic outward part of me.

It’s fun to ebb and flow. It’s fun to play with different parts of you + different energies. It’s fun to see what’s waiting for you in the ‘rest’.

Yesterday I posted that I was crawling back in bed at 2:30pm to rest and many of you said “thank you for sharing this and making this okay”.

Trust what you need. It’s always okay. You’re allowed. ❤️
HERE’S HOW TO FEEL MORE CONFIDENT // Confidence HERE’S HOW TO FEEL MORE CONFIDENT //

Confidence is a funny thing.

We have it when we’re little -- blissfully unaware of judgement or the need to “fit in”.

But then, something happens along the way that makes us question ourselves.

> Maybe it’s becoming aware that your body looks different than others’

> Maybe it’s being left out in gym class, + wondering why

> Maybe it’s your mom saying “stop being __ (shy, loud, etc.).”

✨And then, the self-doubt creeps in, + you:

> Wonder if you’re okay + good enough

> Worry you may not fit in unless you change some aspect of yourself

> Label parts of yourself as “good” + “bad”

👉🏻And what does this lead to?

😬Feeling nervous to be yourself

⚡️Putting other people on a pedestal

🙄Constantly seeking acceptance + validation

💆🏻‍♀️A lack of self-trust

🚶🏻‍♀️Self-criticism

You see other women so comfortable in their skin and you’re like,

✨Gosh, I want to be like that.

I want to:

🥳Show up to a social scene and feel totally relaxed in who I am.

💪🏻Feel confident at work, instead of like an imposter.

🧘🏻‍♀️Trust my decisions, even if they’re different from others’.

🌈You have a vision of “confident you”, but you can’t quite seem to get there.

I LOVE this topic because working on my “self-esteem” has been a crucial pillar of my growth as a woman.

And I will say:

💫Becoming increasingly confident in who you are is the BEST feeling.

It takes SO. MUCH. WEIGHT off your shoulders.

It restores you to what you know deep down: you’re perfectly alright.

IT FREES YOU.

That doesn’t mean I don’t still have my moments. I do! 🙋🏻‍♀️

But when something pops up now, I know the steps to work through it. I know the path, so it gets easier + easier.

👉🏻Want to know the “how” behind feeling more confident?

Well… I’ve got you.

⚡️TOMORROW @ 1PM ET, I’m leading a free workshop called:

💕Tangible Steps To Feeling More Confident

It’ll be filled with steps you can take now to start feeling more confident in every part of your life.

🍾I’m hosting it in my free Facebook community called TRANSCEND + we’d absolutely love to have you.

Click the link in my bio to join us! It’s free baby!💋

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