When I moved to NYC 9 years ago, I was terrified of dating. My self-esteem was at an all-time low and I was so insecure in my skin. I dreaded going on a date.
As I dated around, I got more used to the dating process, but I still struggled with my self-confidence. I was constantly focused on what the other person thought of me and always put guys on pedestals the second I liked them.
Underneath that, I had stacks of negative beliefs about myself and about love. I didn't think that a guy I liked could actually like me back. I didn't understand why someone would choose me over all other people. I thought I needed to be like other women around me in order to be loved, and sometimes I felt so different.
I started to work A TON on myself in this area. I hired a dating coach. I worked with a therapist. I attended retreats. I filled the pages of countless journals, digging into my inner world and trying to break through these ideas that held me back.
As I worked through my beliefs about myself and about dating, my outer experience changed. I attracted different men. I started to love going on dates. While dating still felt challenging at times, I felt more at ease and self-assured, knowing how to navigate the ups and downs in my own way.
Most importantly... I learned how to trust myself. To make decisions. To express myself freely. To be ME.
I have so many stories and lessons that I've learned in the past 9 years that I share in this workshop.
If my story sounds familiar to you at all, I hope that this resource helps you navigate the dating world with a little more ease and a lot less stress!