My Curated Holiday Gift Guide is HERE!

Hi hi and happy holidays! I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving despite the unusual circumstances this year. Ryan and I were lucky enough to get to spend Thanksgiving with both sets of our parents and we all cooked an absurd amount of food that we are still eating, 5 days later… as it should be! 🙂 Although I am a little late to the game, I am assuming some of you are still in search of holiday gifts for your loved ones (as am I!), so wanted to send you a curated (not overwhelming!) little gift guide with a few of my…

Please stop judging yourself like this

Yesterday I was on a call with a client who just broke things off with a guy she was dating for a couple of months. She said “I was only dating him for a couple of months, I ‘shouldn’t’ be this sad. I don’t ‘get to be’ this sad”. Mmm, immediately my coaching ears perked up. Similarly, this week I was telling my therapist about a few things I was feeling and experiencing and she said something along the lines of, “it seems like what’s making this harder for you is your judgement of how you…

When You Want Something To Work Out, And It Doesn’t

As you may have seen on Instagram last week, Ryan and I put an offer down on a house we loved and were under contract. In the last 24 hours before putting down our deposit, the whole deal collapsed – we couldn’t come to certain agreements with the Seller that would have made us comfortable. I was shocked by how devastated I felt. I never in a million years would have thought I’d ever feel that emotional about a freakin’ house, but there it was. In the course of the two weeks we were doing diligence on the house and…